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Why Do Girls Play With Their Hair?

Why Do Girls Play With Their Hair?

Why Do Girls Play With Their Hair?

Have you ever chatted to a girl and noticed that she plays with her hair constantly? Sometimes it might just be a habit but most of the time there are other body language signals that you can read in conjunction with this allowing you to pick up if she’s attracted to you. If you practice some of the concepts in this article you’ll be amazed at how much communication goes on that is non-verbal. There are also signals that tend to be voluntary and others that are involuntary letting slip exactly what the woman is really thinking. You may think wow if I can get these techniques learnt then it will almost be like being able to read a girls mind. If you do put some of the ideas here into practice please take it slowly at first because if you wade in too quickly you could end up embarrassing yourself. Try to remember that all girls are different so you’ll need to view body language signals on balance. The truth is that being able to read body language can give you a real edge in the dating game and it’s not just a myth. Why would the military use it to help their officers make decisions in life and death situations if it were not a valuable tool?

What Does It Mean When A Girl Plays With Her Hair -  Subconsciously Is She Attracted To You?

Some girls will say that they play with their hair because they are a little nervous or it’s a habit. In most cases this is the stock answer that you will get if you ask one of them why they do this. They may also say that if they don’t play with their hair they would play with their hands, put makeup on or do something else similar instead. This seems to be a very simple answer to a fairly complex psychological question that I’d argue can not be answered easily. It’s a fact that during a conversation with a new man most women are just not clued into the different body language signals that they unconsciously throw off. Sure, there will always be exceptions to the general rule and there will be a few girls out there that have decent grasp of what they are doing. Some of them will realise what a complete Barbie they are being halfway through a full blown hair twirl and compose themselves, this is quite amusing to look out for. Most will carry on regardless allowing you to pick up on the signals just by knowing what to look out for. So you have to ask yourself, is she playing with hair because she’s subconsciously attracted to you?

Flirtatious Preening Is Natural

Believe it or not some girls will actually twirl their hair on purpose because it just feels naturally the right way for them to comfortably signal to you that they want you to think that they are attractive. This is kind of flirtatious preening is a completely natural action seen in many different animals including human beings. Most girls do this action completely subconsciously. The effect on the guy is to notice more about how the girl looks starting with her face framed by her hair. In fact any type or preening in this situation could be read as a dating body language signal that indicates the likelihood that she is attracted to you. This could include the straightening or smoothing of clothing or any way of fiddling with how she looks, makeup, lipstick application etc.

Other Dating Body Language Signal To Look Out For

So you’ve noticed some flirtatious preening going on and you are starting to ask if this really is the sign that you are looking for. So what other signals should you look out for to be read in conjunction with this? Remember you need to make sure you get a balanced view before you go and make fool of yourself. Here are a few questions to ask yourself:

Does She Look Straight At You And Smile?

Does She Look Straight At You And Smile?

  • Did she look straight at you and smile when you greeted her?
  • Is she looking directly at you and are her eyes slightly wider open than usual?
  • When she plays with her hair does she expose generous areas of her neck to you?
  • Pay attention to her posture, is she sat directly pointing towards you?
  • If stood up in a group of people do her feet point towards you?
  • Does she tilt slightly towards you during conversation?
  • Is she comfortable exposing the inside of her wrists and arms?
  • Would you say that her hand gestures indicate she is being open with you, e.g. open palms upwards or towards you?
  • What’s her tone of voice like, is it playful, does she laugh a lot?
Are Her Gestures Open?

Are Her Gestures Open?

If you can answer yes to several of these questions while she’s playing with her hair then it’s quite likely that she’s attracted to you. Some of this will be voluntary depending on the girl but most of these will be involuntary actions tried and tested along millions of years of human evolution. These are of course all designed to ensure that her genetic material is carried on for generations to come.

So Why Do Girls Play With Their Hair?

In summary the answer is not a straight forward one. In most case it is likely to be a mixture of habit or actions subconsciously carried out when a girl is outside of her comfort zone. However, read in conjunction with other positive dating body language signals, we at How To Get A Girl To Like You feel that on balance girls do play with their hair because they want you to find them attractive on one level or another.

  • Gita says:

    Well since this an online experiment this is what I think because I’m a shy girl myself. maybe she gave you her number because you was a cool person and you build confident in her. when a shy girl say she want to take things slow, she actually saying no peer pressure understand her feelings. she don’t want you to think she one of them girls who willing to do anything to get your attention. you should call her first so she know that you interest in talking to her, but when you talk to her Be confident!!! Talk to them (Girls get turned off or get the impression that you don’t like them if you don’t talk to them) Make a joke, it will break the ice. Shy girls probably won’t start talking right away. She probably won’t go talk to you; you need to be the one to start the conversation. After a while she will begin to start conversations with you. Don’t let the conversation die down! Do not ever, ever, insult her in any way. Also, do not ever ask her why she is so quiet/shy. There is no answer to that question, and the shy girl will feel uncomfortable. good luck

    June 21, 2012 at 4:07 pm
  • AB says:

    thanks, theres this cute girl in my class, since i was assigned a seat next to her, we never talked, but she twirls her hair a lot when im near and when i went 2 another class she was in (i was in a different class but had to go to her class’s room) she kept looking at me a lot, im sure she likes me now, thanks! :)

    September 5, 2012 at 10:35 pm
  • Abdul Qoyyuum says:

    Playing with her hair + her little subtle body postures = better message received. The only little problem I’ve seen in my bros is that they’re not really paying attention to these details. :S

    This includes:
    If her shoulders are more relaxed or stiff
    If the words used in a conversation are more comfortable
    If the way she speaks feels like nervous/giddy/completely different when she speaks to other people

    And so on.

    October 23, 2012 at 3:37 pm
  • Emily says:

    Drives me nuts when women do this. They are seeking male attention. Why not stand on a street corner at night and sell themselves. They are equal to those women when they do this.they should cover their heads and wait for marriage before exposing their glory to a man.

    October 7, 2013 at 5:13 pm
  • Zin says:

    This is all so true.
    I do ALL of these things when I’m talking to the guy I like. And honestly playing with my hair is not a habit. I barely twirl my hair, its only around the guy im into. and i cant stop, im always doing it lol and yes i do catch myself doing it all the time.

    October 17, 2013 at 9:43 am

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